a way back to love
There is a way back to love. The way back is to take your eyes off your partner and move into a healing process that leads to taking personal responsibility for your own feelings. Inner Bonding is such a healing process. By learning and practicing the Six Steps of Inner Bonding, you learn to bring the love to yourself that you may be trying to get from your partner. You learn to stop rejecting and abandoning yourself, instead bringing love and compassion to your own feelings and needs. You learn to connect with a higher source of love and bring that love inside, so that you have love to share with your partner, rather than always trying to get love with your controlling behavior. You learn to define your own worth and create your own inner safety, so that you no longer pull on your partner for these.